Jennifer Gremillion | BEST CHRISTMAS GIFT – CREATE YOUR LIFE
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BEST CHRISTMAS GIFT – CREATE YOUR LIFE

BEST CHRISTMAS GIFT – CREATE YOUR LIFE

Dear Agreeable Readers,

An agreement is state of Being in Accord… Harmony in Feeling… a Synergistic Arrangement.

My husband, Pierre, shared a book called The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz. It’s a Toltec Wisdom book.

THE FOUR AGREEMENTS INCLUDE:

THE FIRST AGREEMENT: BE IMPECCABLE WITH YOUR WORD

Do you speak with integrity?

Yes means yes. No means no.

Do you say what you mean?

Or do you hide, stuff or quench your voice… your feelings which are your guidance system?

Do you gossip about others?

A little hear. A little there. No big deal. Right?! But it is a big deal. When you gossip about others, the energy goes out in the universe. And guess what? The other person can feel it… energetically.

Do you speak kindly or unkindly to others… to yourself?

There is power in your word. Words can damage another. Words can tear or build another. Today, my husband’s words were downright abusive. Yes abusive towards me. I removed myself from the situation.

I value myself now. I see my worth now.

I’ve been abused, and I’ve been the abuser with words. Have you?

THE SECOND AGREEMENT: DON’T TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLY

If someone says something or does something towards you, it’s a projection of their inner reality. The Mirror Analogy.

A Course in Miracles says that our responses are based on Love or Fear. Love is of the Spirit. Fear is of the Ego. Everything is the world is Love or a Call for Love (Fear). Don’t let the Ego have the upper hand. Don’t be shaken because of others unloving behaviors and unloving actions. When you maintain that Space of Love, you are no longer a Victim of Needless Suffering. No one can get you off balance because you remain calm and centered. Remember Love or a Call for Love.

Keep your balance.

Keep your stability.

They are crucial to living a happy and fulfilled life. I’m preaching to the choir here because my husband’s words were daggers. But they were also a Call for Love. I gained my composure, clarity blew in and healing engulfed me. Love Jennifer. Yes, love.

THE THIRD AGREEMENT: DON’T MAKE ASSUMPTIONS

Do you communicate with others to avoid misunderstandings?

Pierre was upset because of a miscommunication… a misunderstanding. His expectation was not filled. It just needed to be handled with the proper weight of understanding and compassion. There are solutions. Truly, there are.

THE FOURTH AGREEMENT: ALWAYS DO YOUR BEST

We are growing and evolving. Pierre asked, “Will you forgive me? I am not perfect.”

Strive for a healthier mindset, improved life-giving beliefs, and compassionate communication.

I’ve been abused, and I’ve been the abuser with words. Have you?

“You need a very STRONG WILL in order to adopt the Four Agreements – but if you can begin to live your life with these agreements, the TRANSFORMATION in your life will be AMAZING. You will see the DRAMA of HELL DISAPPEAR right before your eyes. Instead of living in a dream of hell, you will be creating a new dream – your PERSONAL DREAM OF HEAVEN.” ~ Don Miguel Ruiz

Create your life. No regrets. Create your dream. You are never late or too old. Perfect timing. Give yourself the best Christmas gift – Go Create the Life of Your Dreams! Agree?!

Transforming & Creating,
Jennifer

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